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If you’re completely happy in your own company you’re winning at life

I love my own company more than the company of most people. 

I can be on my own and be entirely happy. I think this speaks volumes about how I feel about myself. I love myself and I’m happy in my own skin. 


Also consider this, when you are on your own everything is on your terms and you can do what you like, when you like. 


If you can enjoy being by yourself I believe you are winning at life. It’s the ultimate confirmation of being at peace with who you are and enjoying who you are. 


You will always have yourself no matter what, so why not love it? It’s such a waste otherwise.


BCL says 

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